To Divorce or Not to Divorce?

     I was brought up to believe that marriage is a commitment to your significant other for the rest of your life.  In Anton Chekhov's "The Lady with the Dog" the matter of staying with the one you are committed to and bound together in holy matrimony is not the case.  I understand there will always be temptation and it seems that married men are more tempting to women than single men are.  In the story Dmitri decides he is going to carry on this affair with Anna despite the fact that he is married.  In my case I personally believe that if you are going to marry someone that you do not need anyone else.  If you are going to cheat on your spouse as in Dmitri and Anna's case then why did you get married in the first place. 
     I think that you are going to want to have multiple partners or dates then you should just stay single.  Why would people go through the lengthy time period of marriage and divorce if they can not control their urges? You marry the one you love but it seems that with our 50%, or whatever it is presently, divorce rate that people are marrying more for the simple fact of saying they are married.  People are getting hitched to show off their friends or for social status.   Some are even getting married for financial security.   All the money in the world will not help an abusive relationship or a troubled marriage.  Go see a marriage therapist or something but stick to your word and vows.  Stay with your spouse, change things to make it better, and have fun with each other.